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Post by charon on Jun 2, 2014 10:15:33 GMT
Unfortunately, she sounds like a typical ex-smoker, particularly one who went cold turkey.......She's now anti anything to do with smoke, tobacco, nicotine etc, because she is still in withdrawal & will be for years to come.......she is now deprived of her pleasure & has decided that everyone else should be...........sorry if it sounds harsh, but that's my take on it.........& by the way, I don't think you've done anything wrong.....on the contrary, you've been very considerate.............................. .I presume divorce isn't an option..... Now that would be an expensive action to take but at least it would cure Shineyitus
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Post by gill2009 on Jun 2, 2014 11:24:42 GMT
I'm just glad things are a bit calmer this morning...hang in there being nice
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Post by jaysey on Jun 2, 2014 11:33:46 GMT
Mikey@Vaporized - glad to hear the situations partially sorted I feel your frustration ! My OH is a hardened Rollie smoker and just doesn't get vaping at all ! He was supportive initially but as I progress , mixing my own and using mech mods he now thinks it's not healthy I'm inhaling oil !! It's bad to vape around our son etc etc ! I'm relegated to the kitchen now ! Guess it won't be long til I'm forced outside Feel persecuted lately !! If anyone has some good links to positive research I would be grateful I will print them out and force him t read them them before I shove them where the sun don't shine Really want to start recoiling but that make him even worse Hey you lot with vaping partners are very lucky
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Post by Clivia on Jun 2, 2014 12:36:32 GMT
if you are vaping nicotine liquids, there will be a minute amount of nicotine in the vapour - the vapour has a half time of 11 seconds - as much as it's not comparable with cigarette smoke, we can't deny that there is something there.
We don't have kids and we both vape indoors - however, if we had friends or family with specially small kids over I would not vape in the same room. As for the car - sure you can wait till the end of the jouney when you have your little one with you.
For at home try for a compromise - one area in the house, wher you can vape freely - I think that would be fair to all3 of you.
I can imagine that a newborn causes a lot of stress as it is - maybe get a nice bottle of somthing, and when he is sleeping sit together with your partner and talk about it in an as quiet way as possible
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Post by chrisjw on Jun 2, 2014 13:59:23 GMT
Mikey@Vaporized - glad to hear the situations partially sorted I feel your frustration ! My OH is a hardened Rollie smoker and just doesn't get vaping at all ! He was supportive initially but as I progress , mixing my own and using mech mods he now thinks it's not healthy I'm inhaling oil !! It's bad to vape around our son etc etc ! I'm relegated to the kitchen now ! Guess it won't be long til I'm forced outside Feel persecuted lately !! If anyone has some good links to positive research I would be grateful I will print them out and force him t read them them before I shove them where the sun don't shine Really want to start recoiling but that make him even worse Hey you lot with vaping partners are very lucky Us vapers without partners are even luckier...............
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