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Post by magicma on Aug 3, 2010 20:06:52 GMT
I've cyber 'known' you two for a while now........and all the time I've said I'm on the move from this flat - three flights of stairs up etc.
Well now the time has come....... Grandson has been helping me throw out all my stuff - I have been ruthless!! I just chuck in black bags and he takes it to the bins.
It's like throwing away my past - I'm a dreadful hoarder. So many black bags have gone down to the bins. Some things I can't part with, so have put them aside. But have been ruthless.
I look out of my windows and see sky - sunrise in front room, sunset from my bedroom.
Hell, what am I going to without that. Sky everywhere.
I know I will have to move to a ground floor flat as that is the conditions of Housing Association.
I have packed my bags - well nearly ( long time from really) - one more Art Show to go over the bank holiday weekend, with my lovely grand-daughter Emma
Not that I have agreed where I will go - I had one offer - I liked the complex because it is in my area, but it was a BEDSIT !! Does nobody listen to me!! I still have load of baggage.
Oh, bye the bye: my mate Elvis - whom I'm sure I mentioned in the past , who lugs all my stuff around for me 'cos I don't drive suddenly decided he doesn't like the art world!! Oh well, that's his choice. He said he would like to continue being friends !!!!!!!!!!!!!! after about 15 years. But I don't know in which way. So I declined the offer.
Must admit to smoking real rollies at the moment Ughhh. MM
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Post by Chrissie on Aug 3, 2010 20:20:10 GMT
Oh (((((MM)))) my heart goes out to you. Wish you could move down to Cornwall - you can get views & see the sky, even from some ground floor flats Sending you some cyber flowers with love
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Post by magicma on Aug 3, 2010 20:47:12 GMT
Thanks Chrissie, I wish it was that easy!! MM
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Post by Chrissie on Aug 3, 2010 20:48:43 GMT
So do I (((MM))) And really wish there was something I could do to help.
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Post by magicma on Aug 3, 2010 22:14:59 GMT
If only...a lot of my heart is there!! During the war, I lived with my aunt in Axminster, then through my teenage years, spent loads of time on the beach at Lyme Regis. Fell in' love' with a guy from Charmouth. I can see him now. Mike Trott, I eventually had to go back home in London.
Mike turned up on my doorstep in London a few years later - just about two days before I got married!! I rang his father to say where he was and that he was safe.
I left my mum to deal with the rest!!!!!!!
Do you think the council would I qualify for a transfer there!!!
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Post by Scylla on Aug 4, 2010 4:10:54 GMT
I am so thrilled for you in your new-found space, Madam As for having to move into a ground-floor flat, let's hope you have the compensation of a little garden or patio Have a bunch of roses - you'll have to put them in a different room from Chrissie's But what a coincidence this is SO was just here to copy some stuff from his old PC and deliver a bit of shopping for me. He is supposed to have done what your grandson did, during these months while Bro is away but there's always something preventing it the same happened last year. If something radical doesn't happen in the next 10 days Bro will not be able to get in Oh well, I was thinking of changing the locks anyway SO lives in a HA flat - when his father died he had to move out of the previous one cos it was 2 bedrooms, they gave him a choice of 2 flats, hopefully you will get some choice {{{{Madam}}}} Everything must be very strange around you! Nice strange, please scylla x
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Post by Chrissie on Aug 4, 2010 8:47:41 GMT
MM, you could always try to see if you could get a transfer elsewhere.
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Post by magicma on Aug 4, 2010 16:54:25 GMT
Yes Chrissie, I could probably ask for a transfer to another area but I want to stay in Southborough. Two of my children and my grandchildren live fairly near here (The other one and his family live in Tenby) and I am central to my art societies. Bus stop right outside my flats - that's another thing I will miss - won't be that close in future. Although I am chucking loads of stuff out, there's still loads I am keeping!! So don't know whether it will fit in wherever I go!! Really I'm quite a believer in whatever will be, will be!! Just have to wait and see. MM
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Post by Chrissie on Aug 4, 2010 20:05:45 GMT
I can understand you needing to be close to your family & the art society MM Plus I can also understand how hard it must be for you to move & get rid of stuff Is there any chance of moving to another higher up/top floor flat with a lift?
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Post by jimmybat on Aug 5, 2010 1:01:45 GMT
HMMMM lol just had a thought what about hiring an out of work person to life you up and down the stairs? James
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Post by Chrissie on Aug 5, 2010 8:09:00 GMT
Lol James
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Post by magicma on Aug 5, 2010 17:55:30 GMT
LOL at James!! I did have my friend 'Elvis' for years, who at least lugged my stuff up the stairs but a couple of months or so ago, he decided he was fed up with the 'art world' so dumped me!!!! (As they say these days!). I've been told he has recently bought a mountain bike - not sure of the reasoning behind that!! Chrissie, yes I would consider somewhere with a lift, if the HA would agree it. The new list comes out tomorrow, so see what that brings. MM
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Post by Chrissie on Aug 5, 2010 19:15:41 GMT
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Post by magicma on Aug 5, 2010 19:38:55 GMT
Well Chrissie, you have just made me spend over £50.00 !!! Too good to miss though. Thanks for letting me know. There seem to be so many special deals on at the moment. I've already got two complete bargain sets from TW still unopened!! Think I will go and lay in a darkened room now!!! I really need to have a good sort out and find a nice box or something to keep them all in. MM
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Post by magicma on Aug 5, 2010 19:46:57 GMT
Got to go now anyway - back tomorrow. Nite Nite all. MM
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