The TOTALLY OFF-TOPIC thread :)

[jimmybat]

My thoughts are constantly with you I do know how you feel I have been through this too many times and it is horrible the only thing that kept me going was the support from good friends and that's what you have here and we are ALL praying and wishing you well

JAmes (((XXX)))

[Scylla]

This is too cruel. Thinking of you, dear Chrissie.

scylla x

[lynwlt]

Oh Chrissie,
I am so very sorry...
Lynda

[Lilac]

This news just defies belief Chrissie!!!

i'm wishing i could give you a hug, cos you need one...

((((Chrissie)))) xxx

[magicma]

Oh, dear Chrissie - the tears are streaming down my face. How dreadful for you.
I will be thinking of you.
Back after the exhibition - Tuesday.

We are all here for you as you are for us. Blessings MM (((((((Chrissie)))))))))

[foxy9212]

They were both just so beautiful; Oh Chrissie I am so very sorry.

Penny

[knawes]

My sincerest condolences, Chrissie. As the owner of two cats myself, I know how you must be feeling. (((Hugs))). Kath

[ragjoy]

i dont normally read this thread.
chrissie, i am so sorry for you and your babes.
i know how hard it is to lose a much loved dog, but to lose 2 loved pets at once doesn't bare thinking about.
i know nothing can console you at this awful time.
just dont know what to write.
take care chrissie im so sad for you.
raggy x.

[Chrissie]

Thank you so much ((((everyone)))) for all your lovely kind thoughts & words

I'm struggling badly with the grief & trying to understand firstly, why Benjy found his way down to the main road & secondly why Tasha had that massive stroke on the same day

I'm still not going to b around much for the next few days as at the moment I'm either sobbing my heart out or feeling completely numb.

But I will be back.

[jimmybat]

take your time we will all be here when you return still thinking of you at the hard time
James

[Lilac]

I think there's loads of things we don't, and can't and never will, understand, Chrissie....about life and the universe....

but, for whatever reason, i can't quite shake the feeling that Tasha was taken that same day as comfort for Benjy....

Try to think of it like this Chrissie, you haven't lost your 2 fur babies, you just can't see them....

Nothing will help your pain sweetie, till time fades it, crying buckets will help, well it always helps me, take your time and we're always around if you need to offload

[Scylla]

That's a lovely message for Chrissie, Lilac




scylla x

[Lilac]

Thanks Scylla its only a couple of years since i lost my beloved Amber, she was a boxer/akita cross and just collapsed suddenly one day on the stairs, she was only 8, but a vertebrae in her neck had caused paralysis in all 4 legs, the vet said they could operate but only gave her a 20% chance of success and she was in such distress i just couldn't put her through it....

i remember the awful pain very clearly, and the shock, i thought she still had years ahead of her... :-[

[Scylla]

What a terrible thing to happen

I comfort myself that probably neither Benjy nor Tasha suffered, I sincerely hope that's true.

scylla

[Lilac]

Thats usually the case with head injuries Scylla, they lose conciousness and don't suffer, same with severe strokes....thankfully