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Post by Twisty on Oct 13, 2012 18:20:27 GMT
Hi everyone! New to vaping , only been doing it a week. Very much enjoying it but ... I feel quite embarrassed when it comes to doing it in public. So even if I'm just popping down to the local shop or going on a night out , I feel very self-conscious taking it out and vaping on it. In my head i feel as people look at me suspiciously , like I'm doing something weird or wrong. Or god knows , even illegal! I still very much treat it as I did with cigs , in terms of : I'll go out of a restaurant or club to have a vape. Or think I need 5 mins alone with my e-cig , like I used to take little breaks when having a cig. Not to mention that , when I'm in public and I need to refill with juice - gosh , feel I should hide in a corner so nobody can see what I'm doing. Has anyone got any advice for me , please?
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Post by pixiguru on Oct 13, 2012 18:32:31 GMT
Just do it! I had to force myself not to hide as I felt everyone was looking but I persevered and now I'm not bothered I've not had to refill in public tho.......
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Post by Karma on Oct 13, 2012 18:34:37 GMT
You could pre-fill some cartos before you go out? Apart from that all I can really say is that you will get used to it I think people look because they're curious! Some vendors send business cards out with orders that explain it pretty well. You could take some out with you to show people.
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Post by giles on Oct 13, 2012 18:42:58 GMT
I felt a bit embarrassed at first too Twist, and I'm not easily embarrassed. It goes away when you realise that actually nobody cares much.
I found it easiest with a black 510 cig-sized setup. Everybody knew it was an imitation cigarette. Most people have heard of such things, so not a threat to them. I'd keep loaded carts in a purse so that I only had to fill when at home.
I still go out of restaurants for a vape, just like I used to for a smoke. Nice to be in the fresh air.
If I'm with friends, I tell them what it is first - "by the way I've been using one of these things...". "Nearly as good as a fag and lots cheaper" is what I used to say, but these days I actually think vaping is a better experience.
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Post by Brian on Oct 13, 2012 18:44:18 GMT
Nothing to be ashamed of Twist.
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Post by Twisty on Oct 13, 2012 18:52:51 GMT
Thank you so much everybody - I know it's not something to be ashamed of. Considering that smokers are frowned upon most times ( used to be very self-conscious telling new people I met I am a smoker ).
I will follow your advice and have some pre-filled cartos with me whenever I go out .
I havent yet been approached by people asking me with it is. I have been quite discreet with it though. At home Im happily vaping away , but in public feel so shy about it still.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2012 18:54:28 GMT
i felt exactly the same, im a month into vaping now and i dont feel imbarrassed anyone, you will get used to it
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Post by GothicLord on Oct 13, 2012 19:08:47 GMT
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Post by Twisty on Oct 13, 2012 19:19:11 GMT
Just got to keep telling myself Im not doing anything wrong and actually doing something that is good for me. Gothiclord , I tend to be shy when people ask too many questions I suppose. Or them thinking that Im a weirdo , if Im explaining it and they dont get it. The idea with the cards is probably the easiest route out of it , he he - send them over here
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Post by GothicLord on Oct 13, 2012 19:22:38 GMT
Just got to keep telling myself Im not doing anything wrong and actually doing something that is good for me. Gothiclord , I tend to be shy when people ask too many questions I suppose. Or them thinking that Im a weirdo , if Im explaining it and they dont get it. The idea with the cards is probably the easiest route out of it , he he - send them over here Lol I'm used to people thinking I'm a weirdo I mean I'm 6'1", 33 years old, and a goth But I do know what you mean, so print some cards, and send them here There is always someone about waiting to answer any question they could ask
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Post by Twisty on Oct 13, 2012 19:32:03 GMT
You guys are making my whole transition so much more fun , so glad I joined the forums! Gothiclord , Im probably right at the opposite end : short , blonde and with a "thing" that lights up blue and vapour coming out of my mouth. Hmmmm , had some weird looks from some old ladies at the bus stop the other day
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Post by womble on Oct 13, 2012 19:37:46 GMT
I've been vaping a year and I'm still a bit apprehensive about vaping in public, it will get better over time as it becomes more normal for you.
I've been vaping this afternoon at a kids party and the only person that asked me about it was one kid who saw me doing it outside. I had it on my belt in full view all the time.
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Post by GothicLord on Oct 13, 2012 19:39:11 GMT
I started with a "thing" that lights up blue, and was initially worried about it, I even bought different batteries that light up orange so I didn't draw as much attention, now I stand in the smoking area at work with a riva 1100 vaping away quite happily. I was very self conscious when I first started using e-cigs, and did all I could not to be noticed, 6 weeks on, and I'm much more confident with it, to the point that I'm about to build my own mod which will draw a lot of attention
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Post by Chrissie on Oct 13, 2012 19:42:53 GMT
Twist, I mainly vape with this - And apart from a guard on a train, no one has questioned me.
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Post by GothicLord on Oct 13, 2012 19:44:35 GMT
that is a beautiful bit of kit Chrissie
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